In Canada, men die by suicide at a rate nearly three times higher than women* - this is a heartbreaking reality. This disparity is particularly evident in industries like construction, where 33% of men report poor mental health, and 64% wish their employers did more to support mental health initiatives**
These aren’t just numbers. They’re fathers, brothers, husbands, friends – men who often suffer in silence.
I'm not a doctor – I'm just trying to get people talking again, and the Sitka Project is my response. A simple hat, conveying a big message.
It’s not about encouraging men to talk more. It’s about building an unspoken network of support – where someone can feel seen, without needing to say a word.
Wearing a Sitka hat isn’t a call for help – it’s a quiet gesture that says: You’re not alone. I see you. I’ve got time if you need it. For the man having a tough day, spotting a Sitka hat on a ferry, at a work site, in a coffee shop, or in a grocery store can be a subtle reminder that someone understands.
This isn’t a campaign. It’s a movement.
It’s not just about the person wearing the hat – it’s about supporting the men around him. A small signal with a big meaning. A simple way to stand for connection, for community, for change.
No pressure. No expectations. Just a symbol that community is still out there, even when words are hard to find.
The Sitka spruce - one of the tallest trees on the West Coast - is known for its quiet strength and resilience. Like the tree, this movement stands tall – not loudly, but steadily. The hat isn’t just something you wear; it’s something you stand for
*Public Health Agency of Canada (PHAC)
**Statistics Canada
Because someone might need to see it – today, tomorrow, or months from now. Because even when you don’t know who is struggling, your quiet presence might be the reason someone doesn’t feel invisible. Because being part of this movement means standing for something bigger than yourself: a culture where men quietly show up for each other, without needing to say a word. Because one small signal can carry a big meaning. And because one moment of connection can change the course of someone’s life.
For more information on this project as well as ways to get involved, please go to www.sitkaproject.ca
The Sitka Project was created after experiencing firsthand the isolation that comes when someone you love struggles in silence. Watching a former partner experience challenges with their mental health – and feeling powerless to help – taught me how devastating it can be when there’s no simple, stigma-free way for men to say, “I need to talk.” It’s not just the men themselves who suffer from this silence - it extends to their partners and children. The Sitka Project – offering men a simple, visual way to know that they aren’t alone - is deeply personal to me.
Inspired by the resilient Sitka spruce, these hats are that tool: a low-pressure signal that reads, “If you need to talk, I’m here.” No clinical labels. No heavy expectations. Just a quiet invitation to pause, nod, and begin a conversation that might otherwise never happen. It’s a quiet kind of community - men supporting men, simply by wearing a hat.
While this specific project focuses on men, I believe in building a broader culture of connection for everyone. My hope is that Sitka quietly opens the door to understanding and empathy for all. That it reminds people that they aren’t alone, and that there’s a community that cares. Because if one hat can start a conversation, and one conversation can change a life – then maybe we’re already changing the world, one quiet connection at a time.
The Sitka Project is designed to encourage open, casual conversations and reduce social isolation. The hats provided through this project are intended solely as conversation starters and a silent signal that the wearer is open to connecting with others.
Important notice:
1. The Sitka Project and its participants do not offer, provide, or claim to provide medical advice, mental health treatment, crisis support, or professional counselling services.
2. Conversations with individuals wearing Sitka Project hats are informal and peer-based, and should not be considered a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment from qualified medical, psychological, or mental health professionals.
3. If you or someone you know is experiencing a mental health crisis or requires professional support, please contact a licensed healthcare provider, counsellor, or appropriate crisis service.
By engaging with this project, you acknowledge and agree that:
1. West Coast Speaks Health Society and its affiliates, directors, volunteers, and program participants are not responsible or liable for any outcomes, actions, or consequences arising from conversations associated with this initiative.
2. The presence of a Sitka Project hat does not obligate the wearer to engage in conversation, provide support, or respond to sensitive topics.
Participation in the Sitka Project is voluntary and for general social connection purposes only.
If you are in crisis or need immediate support, please contact a mental health helpline or emergency services. Call or Text 988 for free, 24/7 mental health support in Canada or go to 988.ca. Talking helps. Professionals are there when you need them.
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